The song "Couldn't Have Her" by Ari Hest explores the experience of a failed relationship and the emotions that come with it. The lyrics reveal a deep connection and love between the singer and the subject of the song, as they talk about beginnings and hold on to each other with genuine feelings. However, things take a turn when the person's eyes suddenly change from being alive and full of life to a gray and lifeless state. This signifies a loss or change in the person's feelings towards the singer. Despite the singer's efforts to understand the reason behind this change, they receive no explanation or closure. The chorus repeats the line "Couldn't have her" to express the frustration and heartbreak of not being able to have the person they deeply cared for. The analogy of running like horses suggests that they are both avoiding facing the painful reality of the situation, remaining in a state of confusion and uncertainty. The singer turns to their loved ones for support, hoping to find answers or strength, but nobody can provide a solution. The realization that they can't sleep without this person showcases the significant impact they had on the singer's life. The repeated phrase "Oh that I" emphasizes their disbelief and pain. The song highlights the complex nature of relationships and the difficulty of letting go when one is deeply attached. It encourages listeners to pay attention to the emotions and experiences that shape their lives, acknowledging that sometimes love and connection can end without clear reasons or understanding.
