The song "It’s Not Me (It’s You)" by Asking Alexandria is about a person who is feeling disillusioned and fed up with a relationship that has become negative and draining. The lyrics express feelings of disappointment and a desire to move on from the toxic situation. The protagonist is questioning their faith in the other person and their ability to make the relationship worthwhile. They ultimately decide to break free and move on from the negativity, recognizing that there is no point in continuing to cling to something that is no longer bringing them joy. The song captures the frustration and resolve of someone who has reached their breaking point and is ready to leave a toxic relationship behind.