The song "Flower" by Eels seems to express feelings of being overwhelmed and small in a big world, while also feeling constantly criticized and beaten down by others. The lyrics convey a sense of frustration and a desire to escape from the negative influences and pressures that the singer feels. The repeated phrase "everyone is trying to bum me out" emphasizes this feeling of being constantly brought down by others. The lyrics also reflect a sense of self-awareness and a longing for a break from the harsh realities of life. The mention of being slapped as soon as the singer came into the world and the reference to being a "Flower in a hailstorm" convey a feeling of vulnerability and a struggle to withstand the challenges thrown at them. Overall, the song seems to capture the experience of feeling overwhelmed and beaten down by the world, while also expressing a desire to break free from these negative influences. The repeated pleas to "turn the ugly light off" and the sense of resignation in the lyrics suggest a longing for relief and an escape from the pressures and criticisms of life.