The song "Tell Me About It" by Ella Eyre is about empathizing with someone who is going through a difficult breakup or dealing with a toxic relationship. The lyrics talk about the protagonist's understanding of the pain and emotions the person is experiencing because she has personally been through similar situations. The song starts off by acknowledging the excessive communication with ex-partners and the doubts and insecurities that arise from it. The protagonist assures the person that she knows the feeling of being hurt and betrayed, indicating her empathy. The chorus emphasizes that the protagonist doesn't need to explain or justify the situation to her because she has already been through it. She understands the pain and heartbreak, wearing the metaphorical "t-shirt" of experience. The line "when you see him leaving, I know the feeling" indicates that she knows the sense of relief and mixed emotions that come when a toxic person finally exits someone's life. The second verse touches upon the strained relationship with the partner's mother, who never approved of the person singing the song. The protagonist relates to being blamed for problems and being made to feel like the issue even when she knows she is not at fault. The chorus repeats, emphasizing the protagonist's understanding of the situation and the pain it brings. She reassures the person that she knows how it feels, and they don't have to explain it to her. The bridge comes as a declaration of strength and empowerment. The protagonist states that the partner's selfishness is not the person's fault, and she is over the situation. She is telling the person that she has moved on and will eventually be completely over it as well. Overall, "Tell Me About It" conveys understanding, empathy, and validation to someone going through a difficult breakup or dealing with a toxic relationship. It serves as a reminder that the protagonist has experienced similar pain and encourages the person to share their feelings while assuring them they are not alone.
