The song "The Same" by EMF explores themes of personal growth, self-awareness, and the risks involved in relationships. The lyrics suggest that when the subject of the song first arrived, the narrator took notice of them, and upon getting to know them, they realized something about themselves and distanced themselves from the person. It seems that the narrator has a friend who helps them see things from a different perspective and understand their own consciousness. The phrase "That the risks obscure, are plainer to see than the risks you get from me" could suggest that the narrator believes the risks and potential negative consequences of being in a relationship with them are more apparent and easier to identify than those presented by the person they turned away. This could indicate a level of self-awareness and a willingness to avoid causing harm to others. The chorus repeats the phrase "For real, it washes in the rain, hanging out, it never quite seems the same." This lyric could imply that the truth or reality of a situation becomes clear when faced with challenging circumstances, represented by the rain. It suggests that hanging out (spending time together) doesn't have the same impact or significance after this realization. The repetition of the line "It's never the same" emphasizes the idea that once the narrator had this awareness and understanding, their perspective on relationships and interactions changed. They may have become more cautious, recognizing the risks involved and the need for genuine connection. Overall, "The Same" seems to depict a personal transformation and the recognition of one's own flaws and potential to cause harm in relationships. The lyrics convey a sense of growth and a desire for a deeper and more meaningful connection while acknowledging the complexity and risks that come with it.