The song "If Your Man Only Knew" by Erik Hassle explores the complex emotions and lingering feelings between two individuals who were once in a romantic relationship. The lyrics suggest that the woman is currently involved with another man, but Hassle believes that if her new partner only knew the depth of her feelings for him, it would become clear that she still loves Hassle. The song begins by describing a necklace that Hassle had given to the woman, which she still wears. The necklace holds a hidden note that says "forever yours," symbolizing their past love. Hassle reminisces about falling in love with her during the summer of 2004, sharing a memorable kiss in the water. He also mentions the pain of letting her go. Hassle acknowledges that the summer and their love were temporary, and when winter arrived, she had to leave. However, the connection they shared as each other's first loves remains strong, as their first cut (heartbreak) always goes the deepest. In the chorus, Hassle expresses his wish for her current partner to understand how she truly feels. He believes that if he only knew the depth of her emotions, it would be evident that she still loves Hassle. The song also touches upon a moment when Hassle sees the woman on the street with her new partner. He notices that their interactions seem forced and insincere, and he wishes her well while picking up the pieces of his own broken heart. In the final verse, Hassle once again mentions the necklace, emphasizing that he knows what it represents - their enduring love. Despite the woman being with someone else, Hassle believes that if her new partner was aware of her true feelings, it would confirm that she still loves him. Overall, "If Your Man Only Knew" delves into the lingering emotions and complicated dynamics of a past relationship, reflecting on the enduring connection between two individuals and the pain of moving on.
