"Comin' Apart" is a song by Gary Wright, released in 1981. The song reflects on a relationship that is falling apart and explores the feelings of confusion, frustration, and determination to save it. The song begins with the lines "My, my, my, woh, oh, oh, how'd we ever get this way, where's it gonna go." It expresses astonishment and questions how the relationship reached this point and what will happen next. The repetition of "my, my, my" and "woh, oh, oh" adds emphasis to the confusion and disbelief. The next lines, "Once upon a time, it seemed that we could do no wrong, flyin' on our fantasies, and sailin' on a song," reminisce about the past when the relationship was strong and filled with dreams. It highlights the contrast between the happy moments they once shared and the current difficulties they are facing. The lyrics convey the feelings of unity and strength they had in the beginning, as reflected in the line, "We had it all together when we had it at the start." However, the singer expresses distress over the current state of the relationship, saying, "Now I can't stand to see it comin' apart." Despite the challenges, the singer refuses to give up and resolves to find a way to reignite the passion they once had. The lyrics state, "Now I ain't about to give up, ain't gonna let it slide, got to find a way to light the fire we once had inside." The determination to not give in to the difficulties indicates a desire to rebuild and salvage the relationship. The chorus repeats the initial lines, emphasizing the confusion and uncertainty about the future of the relationship. The repeated questioning of "How'd we ever get this way, where's it gonna go" reflects the singer's desperate search for answers and resolution. As the song ends, the lyrics shift to a plea for hope and assurance. The singer asks for reassurance that they can make it through the tough times, saying, "Tell me we can make it through it, we'll do what it takes to do it." Overall, "Comin' Apart" is a song that explores the challenges faced in a deteriorating relationship and showcases the determination to overcome those obstacles and rebuild what was once lost.
