"Around Here" is a country song by George Jones that presents a narrative about polite behavior and respectful treatment towards women, particularly in the rural Southern culture. The protagonist overhears a conversation between someone named Mary Lou and another person who is seeking her affection. The person seems to be using fast talking and assertive tactics to win her over, but the protagonist believes this approach is flawed. The protagonist advises the person to leave behind their current approach and adopt a more traditional and courteous manner. They suggest that using phrases like "yes ma'am," "no ma'am," and treating women with respect is important. Opening doors for them and taking time to get to know them better is emphasized as well. The narrative takes place in Mississippi, where the protagonist implies that this approach to courting is the social norm. They mention trading formal attire for jeans and boots and wearing an old Stetson hat as a way to fit in with the local customs. The song also highlights the importance of making polite gestures such as winking and smiling when tipping one's hat. The chorus repeats the message of treating women respectfully and taking the time to get to know them before making advances. The protagonist advises asking them out in a polite and appropriate manner, emphasizing that these actions increase the chances of a successful outcome. In the final verse, the protagonist expresses a desire for reciprocity, suggesting that if they were in a different location like New York City, they would hope for the same respectful treatment. The song ends with a reaffirmation of the importance of saying "yes ma'am," "no ma'am," and treating women like ladies. "Around Here" is a portrayal of the cultural expectations and values regarding courtship in a small Southern town. It encourages respectful behavior and highlights the belief that taking things slowly and getting to know someone before making romantic advances is the best approach.
