The song "Choke" by Grinspoon tells a story of a relationship that is deteriorating and reaching its breaking point. The lyrics discuss various struggles and conflicts that the couple faces, but ultimately, they find a way to overcome them. The line "Just because you choked on it, It doesn't mean that you have to go" symbolizes the idea that just because they encounter obstacles and difficulties in their relationship, it doesn't mean they should give up on it. The protagonist expresses their desire for the other person to stay, despite the challenges they have faced. The mention of not receiving SMS (text messages) and smoking cigarettes implies a sense of distance and disconnect between the two individuals. It suggests that communication has become strained, and small issues have affected their connection. The line "Could've guessed your lies on it but did we get there? I hope we got there in the end" suggests that trust may have been broken, but the protagonist remains hopeful that they have found a resolution or understanding in the end. The chorus, "Yesterday we cruised on automatic, tall grass is ready to roll, Where were you when it got all dramatic? Hiding away in your hole," represents a metaphorical journey the couple took together. They were once relaxed, taking things as they came, but when faced with dramatic situations, one person retreats and avoids facing the issues at hand. The plea "Pretty please don't cry on me because I don't think I got the strength" highlights the protagonist's emotional exhaustion. They feel overwhelmed and unable to handle further emotional turmoil. They express a desire to find solace in the rain, indicating a need for catharsis or release from their pain. The repetition of "Where were you when it got all dramatic? Hiding away in your hole" emphasizes the lack of support or confrontation from the other person during difficult times. This contributes to the growing tension in the relationship. The bridge suggests the possibility of reconciling and resolving conflicts on another day, but acknowledges that the other person's feelings have faded or gone, implying a sense of resignation and acceptance of the situation. The final line "I smoke all of your cigarettes, but it meant nothing in the end" signifies that attempts to find solace or connection through shared habits or experiences have ultimately proved futile. Overall, "Choke" reflects the struggles, conflicts, and diminishing connection in a relationship, yet also hints at the hope and determination to overcome these obstacles.
