The song "The Definition Of Not Leaving" by Hands Like Houses tells a story about longing for a deeper connection and understanding in relationships. The lyrics start with the regret of not allowing oneself to be vulnerable ("I wish I’d just stood and let the sun creep through me") and instead resorting to trying to control and manipulate situations ("attempts to build slingshots, spools and sinkers to bring in the sky"). The protagonist reflects on their past inventions and actions, which symbolize their attempts to protect their heart and home ("Inventions out of sticks and stones, a crown dusted off from beneath the bones. A white liar, protector of our hearts and homes"). The use of the term "white liar" implies putting on a facade to appear strong and invulnerable. The chorus "Stay, don't go, I'll eat you up, I love you so" expresses the fear of losing someone and the desperation to hold onto them. It conveys the desire to completely consume the other person and their love, to ensure they won't leave. Later in the song, the lyrics shift to a plea for companionship and unity. The words "I want you to follow and find me, howl like it's us and no one else" showcase a desire for a deep connection where they feel understood and supported. The song suggests that by coming together and embracing their authenticity, they can overcome sadness and rise above it ("We could keep out the sadness and stand so tall"). The line "We could run like wild things, and lie right where we fall" depicts a carefree existence, where they can be themselves and find peace in their vulnerability. Overall, "The Definition Of Not Leaving" explores themes of self-discovery, vulnerability, and the search for genuine connection in relationships.
