The song "Who-Buddy" by Harem Scarem seems to be a reflection on missed opportunities and the regret that comes with them. The lyrics describe a feeling of complacency and a lack of motivation to pursue one's dreams. The singer laments the things they wanted to be but were unable to achieve due to the constraints of real life. The phrase "who I'll never be" suggests a sense of resignation and acceptance of the fact that the singer will never reach their full potential. The line "all I'll never do when given it all, don't refuse" may be a plea to the listener to not make the same mistakes and take chances when they have the opportunity. The repeated reference to "killing time" and not taking chances highlights the theme of missed opportunities and a life that is not fully lived. Despite the melancholic tone of the song, there seems to be a desire for understanding and a need for someone to help the singer make sense of their feelings. Overall, "Who-Buddy" conveys a sense of regret and a yearning to break free from the limitations that hold us back from pursuing our dreams and living a fulfilling life.