"If You Don't Know Me By Now" is a song by Harold Melvin & The Blue Notes, released in 1972. The song falls under the genre of soul and R&B and was written by Kenny Gamble and Leon Huff. The song explores the theme of understanding, trust, and communication in a relationship. It talks about the challenges faced by couples who have been together for a long time and the importance of truly knowing and understanding each other. The lyrics suggest that after going through various experiences together, the person singing believes their partner should know them well enough to understand their thoughts and feelings. They emphasize the need for trust and knowing the difference between right and wrong to maintain a happy home. The song also acknowledges that each person in a relationship has their own quirks and moods, but it encourages a mutual trust and understanding. It urges the partner to get themselves together to avoid any arguments or disagreements that may harm the love they share. Ultimately, the song highlights that if the partner fails to truly know and understand the singer, then they may never be able to fully connect and have a successful and fulfilling relationship. "If You Don't Know Me By Now" has become a classic love ballad and is often considered an anthem for relationships that require deep understanding and mutual trust. It portrays the universal struggles and challenges faced by couples in comprehending each other's needs and desires.
