HAVEN's song "Anxiety Is My Boyfriend" explores the struggles of dealing with anxiety in social situations. The lyrics describe a party where the protagonist is having a terrible time, feeling out of place and uncomfortable. Despite trying to engage with others and enjoy herself, her anxiety takes over and causes her to feel disconnected and alone. The title of the song refers to anxiety as a constant companion, taking on the role of a significant other. The lyrics touch on the difficulties of pretending to be okay and not knowing how to fit in. The protagonist struggles with feelings of denial and inadequacy, unable to understand how others can seem so at ease in social situations. The song also highlights the tendency to turn to alcohol or other unhealthy coping mechanisms in an attempt to mask anxiety and fit in. Overall, "Anxiety Is My Boyfriend" is a poignant and relatable portrayal of the debilitating effects of anxiety on one's social life. It encourages listeners to be more empathetic and understanding towards those who struggle with these issues.
