The song "Assurance" by Hurt is about the struggles and fears in a romantic relationship, but also the comfort and love that exists within it. The lyrics describe the narrator's realization of how the other person looks at them, showing affection and patience. However, the narrator admits to lying about being fine, suggesting that there are underlying feelings of sadness or insecurity. They acknowledge that if their relationship is based on feeling low, they would fear it, yet they still consider the other person as theirs. The narrator expresses their initial fear of being tied down or restricted, but then they find a woman who can understand and accept their deepest thoughts and emotions. They describe this person as someone who can mend and bend their vulnerabilities. Despite this, the narrator contemplates that there will come a point where they will reach a breaking point, after one more round of struggles. The song acknowledges the other person's need for reassurance and their role as the source of goodness in the narrator's life. The narrator reflects on the ups and downs they have experienced together, including tearful goodbyes, yet they have learned to live with the challenges that come with their relationship. They still consider the other person as theirs. In an attempt to express their emotions, the narrator mentions writing a song for the other person. However, it seems that the other person does not join in singing or acknowledging the song, possibly implying a lack of reciprocation or connection. Overall, "Assurance" explores the complexities of a passionate but troubled relationship, highlighting the struggles, fears, love, and comfort that exist within it.
