"Choose Me" by James Blake is a song about longing for someone's affection and validation. The lyrics convey a sense of self-reflection, where the narrator examines their own worth and desires in the context of a relationship. The song touches upon the idea of not feeling weighed down by the other person, meaning that the narrator does not want their partner to feel obligated to be with them. They emphasize that they are not trying to hold the other person down or restrict them. The chorus repeatedly asks the question, "Have I?" This could be the narrator questioning whether they have been unkind or have caused any distress in the relationship. They wonder if they have a clouded mind or if there is something they need to resolve. The protagonist expresses a preference for being chosen every day by their partner. They want to be someone's first choice, despite acknowledging that there are certain places they may not be able to go together. The line, "there are always flowers in bloom," suggests that there will always be other opportunities, and the narrator does not want to settle for "running a ring past" their partner. They desire to be actively chosen rather than being seen as just an option. The song concludes by reassuring the other person that they don't owe anything to the narrator, and if they need support or payment for their presence, they are willing to provide it. The overarching theme of the song remains centered around the idea of being chosen and valued in a relationship.
