The song "How Was It For You?" by James is about a seemingly perfect and attractive person who may not be as genuine as they appear. The narrator describes the person as being even more beautiful than the face of God on a sunny day. However, despite their outward appearance, the narrator realizes that this person may not be what they seem. The lyrics suggest that the person is skilled at manipulating others. They may use drinks and charm to disarm defenses and control situations. The narrator feels defenseless against their tactics and is willing to do anything for them but wants to keep it a secret. The song also touches on the idea of losing oneself in the pursuit of pleasure. The narrator reflects on the idea that to truly enjoy oneself, they must be out of their head. However, they are aware that being disconnected from reality can be detrimental to their health but are willing to take the risk. The lyrics also criticize trends and attitudes that are outdated or copied. The person is described as wearing clothes that may not be fashionable anymore, and their attitude and music are seen as stolen and lacking originality. Overall, "How Was It For You?" explores themes of deception, manipulation, and the blurred line between pleasure and self-destruction. The narrator reflects on their experience with this alluring yet questionable person and ponders the true meaning and impact of their encounter.
