The lyrics of Jars Of Clay's song "Headstrong" describe a person who is controlled, moderate, and plastic. This person is aware of their perfection and wears the law as a jacket, which keeps them warm. However, the lyrics suggest that this person's perception of themselves is flawed, as they do not see everything despite knowing everything. The chorus of the song repeats the phrase "And I don't know what you've been told, but it's wrong. And I can't hold you when you fall so headstrong," which seems to reference the conflict between the speaker and the headstrong person being described. The speaker is unable to hold the headstrong person accountable for their actions because they do not believe that they are doing anything wrong. The lyrics also touch on themes of memory and covering up emotions. The headstrong person remembers everything and covers it all up, despite their perceived perfection and control. Overall, the song seems to be a commentary on the flaws of perfectionism and the importance of being open to our own faults and weaknesses.