"100 Times" by Jax Jones is a song that explores themes of insecurity, commitment, and the inability to hold on to someone. The lyrics suggest that men often engage in casual relationships without much emotional attachment, while women seek security and commitment. In the song, the narrator addresses their partner, expressing disbelief and questioning why they have never been jealous or possessive. The narrator seems to be self-assured and confident in their own independence, implying that they have made it clear multiple times that they will never be who their partner desires or needs. The repeated line, "Baby, I'll never be the one you want," emphasizes the narrator's belief that they are incapable of meeting their partner's expectations and being the person they desire. They acknowledge that they are unable to hold onto their partner and express this through the lines "I can't hold you, I can't" and "Can't hold you down." Overall, "100 Times" explores themes of mismatched desires, unmet expectations, and the inability to fulfill the needs of a partner. It speaks to the complexities and challenges that can arise in relationships when two people have different levels of commitment and emotional attachment.
