"Excuse My Rude" is a song by Jessie J featuring Becky G. The song is about a toxic relationship where Jessie J is expressing her frustration and anger towards her partner. The lyrics depict a situation where her partner constantly talks about themselves, yells, and causes problems, leading Jessie J to reach her breaking point. Jessie J tries to show her support and be there for her partner but ends up feeling stressed and losing herself in the process. She questions whether she should even care anymore. The chorus reflects her frustration and the realization that she hates her partner for the way they have treated her. Becky G's verse emphasizes Jessie J's feelings, reinforcing that hate is a strong word but sometimes necessary when someone is treating you poorly. She asserts her independence, stating that she won't let her partner control her and that she deserves to be treated better. Overall, the song conveys a message of empowerment and standing up for oneself in a toxic relationship. It emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and not accepting mistreatment from others.