"Take What You Want" by John Cougar Mellencamp is a song about a tumultuous and superficial romantic relationship. The lyrics depict a situation where the narrator and their partner continuously engage in a cycle of using and discarding each other. The song opens with the idea of putting one's life and money on the line, emphasizing the risks and vulnerability involved in this relationship. The line "Your name means nothing, and the dreams that we live [?]" suggests that the emotional bond and aspirations between the couple hold no significance. The lyrics go on to highlight the narrator's indifference towards the partner's actions. The line "You don't believe nothin' that you can't see, And you see me as nothing" suggests that the partner doesn't value the narrator beyond their superficial appearance and is dismissive of their feelings. The chorus emphasizes the idea that the partner can take whatever they want, but they should not take away the narrator's sense of self-worth. The repeated phrase "Stay if you want, but just don't stay all day" indicates the narrator's desire for a casual and non-committal relationship. As the song continues, it becomes apparent that the narrator doesn't see any substance or meaning in their relationship. The line "Don't see much sense in lying here with you, The sex is over now, what is there left to do" suggests a lack of emotional connection, indicating that the physical aspect of their relationship is all that holds them together. The mention of lack of conversation further signifies the shallow nature of their connection. The song conveys the narrator's intention to leave and start again, highlighting their unsatisfied and unfulfilled state. The line "I hope you don't believe that you was a failure" suggests that the partner may have insecurities or doubts about their value in the relationship. Overall, "Take What You Want" portrays a relationship devoid of depth, built on superficiality and temporary pleasure. The lyrics convey a sense of emptiness, with the narrator recognizing that the relationship means nothing to them.
