"Your Mistake" by Johnny Hates Jazz is a song that explores the emotions and frustrations of a one-sided relationship. The narrator is addressing their partner who consistently turns to them for support and attention, but fails to reciprocate when they need it in return. The title "Your Mistake" suggests that it is the partner's fault for taking advantage of the narrator's kindness and not valuing their presence. The song starts with the narrator expressing their understanding that their partner is going through a difficult time but chooses to ignore it, pretending that everything is fine. The partner only reaches out when they have a problem, but remains silent once the problem is resolved. The narrator criticizes the partner for thinking they are easily fooled into thinking there is nothing wrong. The song continues to highlight the partner's self-centeredness and constant desire for attention. The partner is depicted as being absorbed in their own life, always seeking the spotlight and turning their head at any glimpse of attention. The narrator suggests that even if they were to express their thoughts and feelings to the partner, it would not make a difference since the partner never truly listens to them. Despite the narrator always being there for the partner in times of need, the partner fails to reciprocate the support. They are never available when the narrator needs them, leading the narrator to realize that they cannot continue being just a friend. The narrator wants more from the relationship but knows they deserve better than being taken for granted. The chorus emphasizes that there is nothing left to say, implying that the narrator has reached their breaking point. The metaphor of a torch burning away and a ship sailing away signify that the narrator's patience and hope have run out. They have decided to move on, picking up their pride and leaving the relationship behind. In the final lines, the narrator directly addresses the partner, stating that the mistakes made are solely theirs. They want the partner to understand and accept their own role in the demise of the relationship. The repeated plea of "It's your mistake" suggests a desire for the partner to acknowledge their actions and take responsibility. Overall, "Your Mistake" portrays a one-sided relationship where the narrator has finally realized their worth and chooses to break free from a partner who consistently takes them for granted.
