The song "Cultivated" by Jon Bryant explores a theme of feeling trapped and controlled in a relationship. The lyrics depict a situation where the singer is in love with someone, but that person does not allow them to pursue their own passions and desires. The singer feels pressured to conform to the expectations and promises of their partner, even though they recognize that they cannot fulfill them. The chorus suggests that the singer is metaphorically sinking deeper into the ocean, symbolizing the suffocating feeling of being trapped. They are holding onto their love and hanging onto the weight of their emotions, but are unwilling to let go and leave the relationship despite their unhappiness. The song emphasizes the power dynamics within the relationship, with the partner enforcing their demands and enjoying seeing the singer beg for silence. The silence is described as a secret, suggesting that the partner uses it as a method of control and manipulation. As the song progresses, the singer begins to realize the toxic nature of the relationship. The silence that they once tolerated and obeyed is now being awakened by their partner's screaming. They reflect on their own unawareness and the ways in which they have been tied down and controlled, symbolized by cutting their hair. Ultimately, the singer remains in the relationship, holding onto their love despite knowing they could leave. The repetition of the chorus reinforces their decision to stay, even though they recognize the negative consequences. Overall, "Cultivated" explores the themes of control, manipulation, and feeling trapped in a relationship where one's own desires and passions are not allowed to flourish.
