"Who is actually to blame now?" is a song by Dutch rapper/singer, Jonna Fraser. The lyrics describe a relationship that is falling apart and both parties are questioning who is responsible. The protagonist of the song is feeling pushed away by his partner and is struggling with the concept of good and bad. He takes the blame on himself, but also acknowledges that the situation is not solely his fault. The song also touches on the issues of trust and communication in relationships. The protagonist feels that his partner is avoiding him and not being honest about her feelings. He acknowledges that they have had many arguments in the past and wonders if she is listening to rumours about him from others instead of communicating with him directly. The chorus of the song repeatedly emphasizes the protagonist's desire to not go broke (both financially and emotionally) and his frustration with his partner's behavior. Overall, "Who is actually to blame now?" is a song that reflects the complexities and challenges of relationships, as well as the desire for clarity and understanding.
