The song "Matter To You" by Kenny Holland tells the story of a relationship where the narrator feels uncertain about their importance to their partner. They express their confusion and vulnerability through the lyrics. In the first verse, the narrator finds themselves with a phone in hand, not knowing what to say to their partner. They question if their partner truly cares about their well-being and how their day has been. They feel that their emotions are not taken seriously, comparing their heart to a fragile paper mâché shape that is still forming. As their partner walks away, they mention that despite the familiar pattern of feeling neglected, they strangely enjoy the chase in the relationship. The chorus "We got a love like La la la... But do I even matter to you La la la..." emphasizes the narrator's insecurities and their desire for reassurance from their partner. They are unsure if their love is reciprocated and if they truly hold any significance in their partner's life. They long to feel important and valued in the relationship. In the second verse, the narrator acknowledges that their partner may feel emotionally close, but physically, they are separated by a distance, describing it as "just a highway apart." They call out their partner, saying they are addicted to the narrator but keep their heart at arm's length. The narrator expresses their frustration by sending lengthy text messages, but their partner's behavior remains reckless and contagious. Despite this, they admit to craving the connection and intimacy they share. The second chorus reaffirms the narrator's doubts, questioning if they truly matter to their partner. They just want to feel valued and respected. The bridge of the song reflects on the memories shared with their partner, recalling them being close and wearing the narrator's t-shirt. However, the narrator feels half-hearted and uncertain about the relationship. In the end, the song repeats the chorus, with the narrator still longing to feel important to their partner. They are stuck in a cycle of uncertainty, deeply hoping that their partner will recognize their worth. Overall, "Matter To You" encapsulates the internal struggle and longing for validation in a relationship where one person is unsure of their significance to the other.
