In Patti Scialfa's song "You Can't Go Back," she reflects on her past in New York City in 1988. She talks about feeling invisible and unrecognized until she found love and recognition in someone's eyes. However, as she tries to revisit her past, she realizes that you can never truly go back to the way things were. The lyrics talk about the struggles and challenges she faced, including feeling cursed and facing bad luck. Despite trying to find a piece of herself in the familiar streets of Chelsea, she comes to the realization that it's impossible to turn back time. The song also touches on the passage of time and how things can look both different and the same. Patti wonders if people from her past will recognize her now and if they ever think about where she's been. Overall, "You Can't Go Back" is a poignant reflection on the nostalgia and longing for the past, while also accepting that life moves forward and change is inevitable. It's a reminder that you can't go back, but you can still cherish the memories and moments that define who you are.