The Used's song "Paralyzed" is about an intense and tumultuous relationship. The lyrics convey the narrator's desperation to keep their partner from leaving, even resorting to begging and saying anything to make them understand. The narrator compares themselves to a statue, meaning they feel numb and helpless in the situation. The song reflects on how moments between the couple can fade away and lead to hurtful words being said. The chorus expresses the narrator's confusion and frustration with the repetitive and unpredictable nature of their arguments. They question how a fight can be seen as romantic and wonder if their partner will ever feel the same way about them again. The narrator also acknowledges the importance of their partner and expresses regret at the way they interact and the lack of affection in their relationship. They want to change and be a better person for their partner, symbolized by being a "statue" that can be knocked out and transformed. Throughout the song, there is a sense of longing for the partner's affirmation and reassurance of love. The narrator recognizes that their feelings for their partner are deeper than the partner may realize, and it saddens them that they don't seem to fully understand the depth of their connection. Ultimately, "Paralyzed" is a plea for communication, understanding, and the hope for a healthier and more loving relationship. The song portrays the pain and struggle within a troubled relationship, while also expressing the desire for growth and reconciliation.
