"It's Not Supposed to Be That Way" is a song by Willie Nelson, released in 1973 as a part of his album "Shotgun Willie." The song explores the bittersweet nature of love and the inability to control or possess someone you care about deeply. The lyrics suggest a sense of longing and unfulfilled love. The first verse speaks of the singer's love not being reciprocated or understood by the other person. Despite the singer's affection, it doesn't matter if they can't be physically present to influence or guide the person they love. Nelson uses a metaphor of children and their dreams in the second verse to emphasize the need for caution. Just like children dreaming dreams, the person being addressed is warned to be careful with their dreams because they may end up consuming them instead. The chorus repeats the notion that the person should know about the singer's love, but it doesn't matter if they can't be there to offer solace or comfort. In the third verse, Nelson continues with the theme of playfulness and spontaneity. The person is encouraged to indulge in playful activities like chasing fireflies, but also warned about rushing to meet their lover and get involved in dangerous affairs until dawn. Overall, "It's Not Supposed to Be That Way" conveys a deep longing for a love that cannot be fully realized due to distance, lack of control, and the unpredictable nature of life. It speaks to the complexities and challenges of relationships, highlighting the pain of loving someone who cannot be fully possessed.
