The song "Friends" by Bren Joy explores the complex dynamics of a relationship that is no longer serving either party. It delves into the idea that despite their attraction and connection, they cannot be friends as they continue to hurt each other. The lyrics suggest that they are stuck in a game where they constantly play each other, leading to disagreements and fights. The narrator acknowledges their own flaws and acknowledges that they are not good for their partner. However, their partner seems to overlook this fact and continues to pursue the relationship. This raises the question of why they both keep trying despite being aware of the toxicity. The chorus expresses the belief that they are not meant to be friends and that the relationship must come to an end. The narrator reflects on the possibility of finding someone else who they could potentially be a better match with. They admit that if they hurt their partner more than anyone else, it may suggest that they are right for each other, but ultimately, no one will win if they continue in this cycle. The lyrics also touch upon the constant arguing and intense discussions they have, which often lead to emotional and physical exhaustion. Despite this, they keep trying to salvage the relationship. The narrator emphasizes the need for their partner to be aware that if they are treated poorly, they will reciprocate, aiming for fairness. Overall, "Friends" by Bren Joy tells the story of a relationship that is filled with ups and downs, where both parties are aware of their negative patterns but continue to stay together. However, they come to the realization that they can never be friends and that it's time for the relationship to end.
