"Button My Lip" is a song by Elvis Costello and The Imposters from their album "The Delivery Man" released in 2004. The song revolves around the theme of staying silent and not wanting to engage in certain discussions or debates. The lyrics suggest a refusal to talk about certain subjects, such as the government, specific incidents, peppermint gum, and the future. The phrase "button my lip" means to keep one's mouth shut or not speak. The narrator wants to withhold their opinions or thoughts until they feel smart or old enough, indicating a desire to avoid unnecessary conflicts or arguments. The song also touches upon issues of power dynamics and the consequences of one's actions. There is a sense of retaliation towards someone who may have mistreated the narrator. The line "It serves you right, now you are suffering" suggests a feeling of satisfaction from seeing the person face the consequences of their actions. The lyrics also portray a reluctance towards vulnerability and emotional attachment. The narrator expresses hesitation towards getting involved with someone who may want them, but they don't reciprocate those feelings. This emotional distance is highlighted by the line "Button my lip with your kiss," suggesting that even a gesture of affection is not enough to change their mind. The song continues to emphasize the narrator's firm stance of not participating in certain conversations or complying with others' demands. They state that they don't want to hear sniveling or impossible things and that the person they are addressing has become invisible to them. The lyrics also touch upon a sense of injustice and the idea of being wrongly accused. The narrator claims to be innocent, despite being perceived as guilty by others. They view themselves as powerful and magnificent, contrasting with the clowns who are vacant and insolent. Overall, "Button My Lip" conveys a message of self-preservation, choosing when and when not to engage in dialogue, and asserting one's independence and autonomy within relationships and societal expectations.
