The song "He's Given Me Things" by Elvis Costello and The Imposters portrays a complex relationship between two individuals. The lyrics suggest that the protagonist is involved with someone who provides her with things that her previous partner did not, and even if her previous partner did offer those things, he would want them back. This new person has also forgiven her for things she didn't even realize she had done, but these incidents have faded into oblivion. The song further explores how this new person has given her time, consolation, and literary inspiration. She expresses the intention to stay with him, even though he refers to her as a "child." Despite this dynamic, it appears to work for them. The protagonist acknowledges that her new partner has given her things that her previous partner couldn't have imagined giving her. These are not material possessions like jewels, but intangible aspects like freedom to come and go, the ability to dismiss others at will, and an understanding of her unique needs. She reveals that when she closes the door, her partner may think she indulges in wild behavior, but he will never truly know what she gives back to him. The song also touches upon the concept of forgiveness. The protagonist mentions that her current partner has forgiven her for trials, tears, and tantrums, as well as false alarms. In contrast, her previous partner seemed indifferent and dismissive, only finding amusement in her distress. This indifference, she suggests, can be easily bought with money. She states that now she understands why she chooses her current partner over her previous one, and why her previous partner will never be able to compare. Addressing her previous partner, the protagonist questions their identity and significance. She refers to them as "out there with one penny" and emphasizes the contrast between the numerous people out in the world and the few who truly matter. She advises them to cover their departure by providing a donation in the hallway, and if the water turns black, to leave some silver. The protagonist asserts that her current partner is the only one who can see her, but they are unable to touch or belong because the air is thin. She warns that they may suffocate if they try to enter her world. The song concludes with a reflection on her relationship with her previous partner. She mentions that they urged her to hold them, suggesting a desire for closeness and intimacy. However, she now realizes that their love was only exciting when it was frightening, highlighting her youth and naivety at the time. Overall, "He's Given Me Things" explores themes of contrasting relationships, forgiveness, and the appreciation of intangible gifts that money cannot buy.
