"My Mom" is a song by Eminem from his sixth studio album, "Relapse" released in 2009. The song reflects on Eminem's upbringing and his complicated relationship with his mother. It delves into his mother's struggles with addiction and the effect it had on him. The lyrics highlight how Eminem's mother was heavily dependent on Valium and various drugs, which influenced his own struggles with substance abuse. He likens himself to his mother due to their shared experiences and genetics. Throughout the song, he expresses frustration and resentment towards his mother for the impact her addiction had on him. Eminem describes how his mother incorporated Valium into their everyday life, mixing it with their food and drink. He talks about constantly experiencing stomachaches and emphasizes the negative effects of his mother's actions, painting a picture of a troubled childhood. The song also touches upon Eminem's troubled relationship with authority figures, including his teacher who disapproved of him. Eminem expresses how he felt misunderstood and judged by others due to his rough upbringing. The chorus of the song repeats the line "My mom loved Valium and lots of drugs, That's why I am like I am 'cause I'm like her" which emphasizes the idea that his mother's addiction played a significant role in shaping his own struggles. As the song progresses, Eminem confronts his mother's abusive behavior, including forcing him to consume paint thinner and painkillers. He highlights the emotional and physical abuse he endured as a result of her addiction. Eminem also admits his own struggles with addiction, likening himself to a "party animal" and admitting his reliance on substances like Valium. He acknowledges that his mother's influence played a part in his own addiction. Overall, "My Mom" explores the complex dynamics of Eminem's relationship with his mother, examining how her addiction impacted his upbringing and contributed to his own personal battles. The song serves as a reflection of his difficult past and the impact it had on his journey towards self-destruction and subsequent recovery.
