The song "Thots Not Feelings" by Erika Costell explores the theme of betrayal and emotional detachment in a relationship. The lyrics suggest that the protagonist is aware of their partner's infidelity and their tendency to seek temporary pleasure with other people, referred to as "thots" (a slang term for promiscuous individuals). The protagonist acknowledges that their partner's actions do not hurt them, indicating that they have become emotionally numb or desensitized to the betrayal. The song highlights the contrast between genuine emotions and shallow encounters, portraying the notion that the protagonist would rather disconnect from their partner's feelings and engage with their own independence and self-worth. The repeated phrase, "Alone with your thots, not feelings," emphasizes this desire for separation and a preference for engaging with superficial relationships rather than investing in genuine emotional connections. Ultimately, the song suggests that the protagonist has decided to leave the relationship for good, knowing that they deserve better than to be repeatedly hurt and deceived. It serves as a declaration of empowerment and resilience, encouraging the listener to prioritize their own well-being over toxic connections.
