"When Push Comes to Shove" is a song by the American rock band Grateful Dead, written by lyricist John Perry Barlow and guitarist Bob Weir. Released in 1987 on their album "In the Dark," the song explores the theme of fear and how it can hinder one's ability to embrace love and take risks in life. The lyrics depict various scenarios where the protagonist is surrounded by potential dangers. In the forest, there may be tigers ready to attack, while in the desert, rattlesnakes pose a threat. The use of gloves made of stainless steel and bats carved out of bricks symbolizes protection, but also suggests a violent response to fear. However, amidst these physical threats, the song suggests that the protagonist's ultimate fear lies in love. The line "When push comes to shove, you're afraid of love" suggests that when it comes to making a commitment, showing vulnerability, or risking emotional pain, the protagonist retreats out of fear. The song continues exploring different settings, like the bedroom where the fear of the unknown lurks, and the garden where even the beauty of roses is seen as a potential threat. Each scenario highlights the crippling effect of fear on the protagonist's ability to fully embrace and experience love. The chorus repeats the line "You're afraid of love when push comes to shove," emphasizing the central theme of fear inhibiting the protagonist from fully embracing love and intimate connections. Overall, "When Push Comes to Shove" tells a story of someone plagued by fear, unable to let go of their inhibitions and fully engage in relationships. It serves as a reminder of the importance of overcoming fear and embracing love, even in the face of potential risks.
