The song "Don't Save Me" by HAIM is about the realization of growing tired of a relationship or situation that once brought joy and excitement. The protagonist reflects on how they never thought they would get tired of something they used to cherish and hold dear, symbolized by the metaphor of "the gold." However, despite this feeling, they are still reluctant to let go and long for the initial spark and passion they once felt. The lyrics express a desire to go back to the way things were before, when the protagonist was hungry for what the future held. They want to be saved or rescued from their current state of dissatisfaction. They plea for their partner or lover to save them, to give them all their love and to hold on tightly. However, there is a sense that the love may not be strong enough, leading the protagonist to question if begging for love is worth it or if it will ever be enough. Ultimately, the message conveyed is a plea to not be saved in a relationship that may be lacking true love or strength. The protagonist realizes that they don't want to be saved in a situation where the love isn't genuine or strong. It is a plea for independence and a desire to find happiness on their own terms.
