"But Not for Me" is a song written by George and Ira Gershwin and has been widely recorded by various artists. This song tells the story of unrequited love, where the narrator feels left out of the blissful and romantic experiences others seem to be having. The song begins with the narrator acknowledging that songs of love are being written, but they are not about their own love story. Despite the presence of a lucky star above, symbolizing the possibility of finding love, the narrator feels that it is not meant for them. The narrator reflects on their past experiences, stating that love has only led them to more clouds of gray, referencing the difficulties and challenges they have faced in relationships. They compare these disappointments to the somber atmosphere of a Russian play, suggesting that even theatrical productions are not as gloomy as their own love life. Realizing their own foolishness in falling for someone who does not reciprocate their feelings, the narrator expresses sorrow and disappointment. They exclaim "Hi ho! Alas! And also, lackaday!" as a way to express their melancholy. Although the memory of a previous kiss may still linger, the narrator resigns themselves to the fact that the person they were in love with is not meant for them. Despite the initial promise in their relationship, it ultimately ends in sadness. The song concludes with the realization that, at this time, what the narrator needs is not a romantic partner but a friend. They acknowledge that in the typical storyline of happy plots, there is always a wedding at the end, but they feel left out as there seems to be no prospect of marriage or commitment for them. Overall, "But Not for Me" tells the story of unrequited love and the feelings of exclusion and disappointment that come with it. The narrator acknowledges their own longing for love, but ultimately accepts that it may not be part of their current journey and seeks solace in the companionship of a friend.
