The song Sad Sweetheart Of The Rodeo by Harvey Danger is about a woman named Edith who is tired of living the life of an "existential cowboy" or "saddle tramp." She's been trying to find her place in the world, taking temp jobs and trying to fit in, but she longs for something more meaningful. The lyrics mention the California champagne lifestyle, which Edith is not interested in. She's also tired of fixing engines and painting rubber clown faces. Despite her struggles, Edith has a secret passion for the rodeo. She feels more alive when she's riding and being a part of that world. The song also mentions Norman, who suggests Edith take a Valium to calm down. He doesn't understand her love for the rodeo and the excitement it brings her. The lyrics also mention the Marlboro man, who died of cancer and wasn't a rocket scientist when he was healthy, adding to the theme of the dangers and flaws that come with living a cowboy lifestyle. In the end, the song emphasizes that Edith is a "sad sweetheart of the rodeo" and not just an urban legend. She's a real person, longing for a life that brings her happiness and meaning.