The song "Love You Then" by Horse Head tells a tale of someone feeling used and unappreciated in a relationship. The lyrics express the feeling of being desired and loved only when others show interest or affection. The protagonist feels that their partner's love is conditional, only given when others do the same. The lyrics also touch upon the protagonist's frustration with their partner's actions. They mention that their partner has been causing them to act erratically and impulsively. The protagonist longs for stability and support from their partner during a hectic time in their life. The song suggests that the protagonist's partner takes them for granted and consistently disappoints them. The protagonist acknowledges that their partner may think about them when they are with others but believes that the other people in their partner's life cannot compare to what they offer. They believe that their partner is surrounded by insincere individuals who do not truly care about them as the protagonist does. In the end, the protagonist questions if they can still love their partner when they finally receive the attention and adoration they seek. The line "And when they do, how could I love you then?" implies that the protagonist may find it challenging to continue loving their partner once they realize how conditional their love has been. Overall, "Love You Then" portrays a story of feeling used, unappreciated, and longing for genuine love and support. It reflects the conflict and uncertainty that arises when love becomes dependent on external validation.
