"If I Had Been Born a Woman" is a song by Joan Manuel Serrat, a renowned Spanish singer-songwriter. The lyrics depict the hypothetical life of the singer if he had been born a woman. Throughout the song, Serrat explores the expectations and roles that society imposes on women. He imagines that if he were a woman, he would have made his mother happy as she desired a daughter. The line "Si hagués nascut dona, hauria fet feliç / La meva mare, que volia una nena" (If I had been born a woman, I would have made my mother happy, who wanted a girl) suggests this longing for a daughter. Serrat then refers to the Spanish Civil War with the phrase "En record de l'àvia morta el 36" (In memory of the grandmother who died in '36). The name Joana appears throughout the song, symbolizing the female identity that he would have had if born a woman. The mention of Joana being associated with the street "Cabanyes" and having a "95" suggests a fictional character who lived in Barcelona. Throughout the song, Serrat reflects on the stereotypical roles and expectations placed on women in society. He mentions that he would have been subtly taught traditional feminine activities such as playing with dolls, sewing, and cooking. The lines "Per a una obscura / Vida futura / Verins embolicats / Amb llaminadures" (For an obscure / Future life / Wrapped candies / With sweets) highlight the potential limitations and superficial expectations that might have been imposed on him. The lyrics also touch on the difficult realities that many women faced during the post-war period. Serrat suggests that he would have been restricted to minimal education, possibly only reaching fourth grade or, with luck, becoming a teacher. This part of the song emphasizes the societal pressure for women to conform and prioritize domestic roles. The song also alludes to the woman's experience with menstruation and the hidden emotions that often accompany it, signified by the line "Plorar sang un cop al mes" (Crying blood once a month). Serrat's lyrics emphasize the cultural taboos and societal constraints that women have historically faced regarding their bodily functions. Further on, the song delves into the idea of marriage and the expectations of finding a husband. Serrat describes a hypothetical marriage ceremony, where his mother would cry tears of joy. However, he also references the potential sacrifices and hardships that women may face as they take on roles like preparing meals, changing diapers, and caring for the family. While the lyrics may seem critical of the societal expectations imposed on women, they also depict the strength and resilience of women. The song implies that, even if he had lived a life restricted by gender expectations, he would have found a way to break free and pursue his own dreams and desires. Overall, "Si Hagués Nascut Dona" is a poetic reflection on gender roles, expectations, and the complexities of identity in society. Joan Manuel Serrat uses this imaginative exercise to highlight the struggles and societal pressures that women face, urging listeners to reflect on and challenge these traditional beliefs.
