The lyrics of John Nolan's song "Over Before It Begins" describe a sense of loss and longing for people who have been lost or gone away. The narrator acknowledges that these people may still be alive but are hidden from view, burying themselves emotionally or physically. A voice inside the narrator tells them that they must try to make things right and find a way to reach out to these individuals. The narrator then expresses their determination to make their attempt clever and impactful, hoping to say the right words that could potentially mend or address the situation. However, as they say the words out loud, they realize that it's already too late, and the situation is irreparable. The relationship or connection they had hoped to salvage is over before it even has a chance to begin. The narrator then reflects on their own personal journey and the choices they have made. They acknowledge their desire to do what they believe is best, while feeling vulnerable and curled up in bed. They express their intention to find the perfect phrases, melodies, and truths to communicate their emotions and thoughts. They hope to find a way to bridge the gap and reach the person they are addressing. Yet, despite their efforts, the narrator realizes that it is ultimately a solitary endeavor. They recognize that their actions and attempts to reach out are primarily for themselves and their own emotional resolution. The song ends by emphasizing that this has always been the case, and perhaps the only way it could ever be. The realization is one of acceptance and understanding, expressing the limitations and complexities of human relationships and communication.
