The song "Chandler" by Joyce Wrice explores themes of love, self-worth, and empowerment. The lyrics describe a toxic relationship where the protagonist realizes that they were taken advantage of and used by their partner. The partner would manipulate and hurt them with their words, and the protagonist realizes they deserve better. The chorus of the song addresses the struggles that women often face in relationships, highlighting the sacrifices they make to receive love. It emphasizes the unequal distribution of effort, where women give their time, money, and energy, yet still feel inadequate and unappreciated. The protagonist decides to prioritize their self-growth and personal goals instead of being entangled in an unhealthy relationship. They choose to focus on their own success and not allow themselves to be dependent on someone who won't meet them halfway. The song's overall message is about finding self-worth, valuing oneself, and recognizing the toxic patterns in relationships. It encourages listeners to break free from unhealthy connections and prioritize their own happiness and well-being.
