In Tate McRae's song "Hard to Find," she is expressing her frustration and confusion over a friend who has changed and is no longer the person she used to know. The friend's actions and words have been hurtful and dishonest, leading Tate to question who she is and why she is behaving this way. The lyrics talk about feeling betrayed by this friend who is playing games and causing turmoil in their relationship. Tate reminisces about the good times they shared and the promises they made, only to be broken by the friend's actions. Despite the friend's attempts to knock her down, Tate vows to come back stronger and not let their toxic behavior take a toll on her. Overall, the song conveys the struggle of dealing with a changing friendship and the realization that sometimes people we care about can disappoint us. Tate's raw emotions and honest lyrics capture the pain and confusion of trying to navigate a relationship that has become hard to find the connection and trust that once existed.