The Everly Brothers' song "I'm Takin' My Time" tells the story of a person who is contemplating whether or not to take back their partner who has repeatedly made mistakes in the past. The lyrics depict a sense of hesitation and caution in granting forgiveness. The song begins with the narrator acknowledging their partner's desire to come back home and make things right. However, they also acknowledge that their partner has a history of repeating their wrongdoings. The lyrics compare their partner's tendency to revert to bad behavior to a thief returning to a life of crime. The narrator decides that if they are going to reconcile, they will take their time to ensure that the decision is well thought out and not rushed. As the song progresses, the narrator reveals that during their partner's absence, they have been contemplating their feelings and evaluating their love. They express their skepticism towards their partner's intentions and claim to be calling their bluff. The narrator is unwilling to easily give in to their partner's advances and insists on taking their time before making any decisions. The chorus emphasizes the cycle of the partner leaving and promising to come back, only to be gone longer this time. The narrator states that they are taking their time to truly understand the trouble that comes with being involved with their partner. In the second verse, the partner comes back and tries to win over the narrator with their charm and familiar moves. The narrator acknowledges their attraction but remains cautious, stating that they have played out this scenario in their mind. They reiterate that if they decide to take back their partner, they will do so on their own terms, taking their time. The bridge of the song adds a sense of resignation and acceptance. The narrator can see the intention to leave in their partner's eyes, implying that their partner's tendency to repeat their mistakes will ultimately lead to heartbreak. Despite this realization, the narrator still plans to take their time before making any decisions. Overall, "I'm Takin' My Time" explores the reluctance to fully commit to someone who has repeatedly hurt and disappointed the narrator. It emphasizes the need for patience and careful consideration before allowing the partner back into their life.
