The song Her by Thomas Headon is about a person who is questioning their feelings towards someone they haven't spoken to in a while. They wonder if it's wrong to care about this person even though they are looking at someone else and if it's okay to like the fact that this person seems to be doing well. Despite not having spoken in a while, the person still holds feelings for this individual and acknowledges that they could have fallen in love with them at some point. They feel preoccupied by thoughts of this person but will always have the time for them. The lyrics suggest that the person struggles to express their feelings and convey them directly to the individual they're thinking of. They acknowledge that they probably shouldn't write down their feelings but feel uncertain about how to express themselves verbally. They hope that the person they are thinking of knows that they're still there for them, even if time has passed. The song seems to be about unrequited love and the struggle of wanting to express feelings for someone but being unsure if it's reciprocated.