The song "The First Time" by Ella Henderson is about a relationship that ended and the singer's confidence in herself. The lyrics suggest that someone told the singer they saw their ex-partner with someone new who looks similar to the singer. The singer acknowledges that the new person may try to imitate them, wearing similar makeup, clothes, and perfume, but they believe that the new person can never truly replace them. The chorus emphasizes that the ex-partner had it right the first time when they were with the singer. The singer gave their all in the relationship and there was no reason for the ex-partner to second-guess their choice. The singer believes that the ex-partner was blinded by something, causing them to search for someone new. The singer's confidence shines through as they express that the new person can never be as good as they are. They reassure themselves that they will always be the best the ex-partner ever had and that no one else can compare to them. The singer also implies that the ex-partner may continue searching for someone similar, but they will never find another person like the singer. Overall, the song tells a story of self-assuredness and the realization that no one can replace the singer in the ex-partner's life. It highlights the singer's belief in their own worth and the confidence they have in being the best person the ex-partner had.
