"You Want Her Too" is a song by Elvis Costello, featuring Paul McCartney, from his 1989 album "Spike". The song explores themes of jealousy, unrequited love, and the complexities of relationships. The lyrics suggest a love triangle between the narrator, the person they are addressing, and a woman who is desired by both. The song begins with the narrator expressing their strong feelings for the woman, but also feeling conflicted and frustrated by her influence over them. They acknowledge that the person they are speaking to also desires her. The narrator accuses the listener of keeping them away from the woman and not being honest about their own desires. There is a sense of resentment towards the listener for potentially hindering their chances with the woman. There are elements of sarcasm and bitterness in the lyrics, as the narrator mocks and challenges the listener's romantic nature and predictability. The woman, according to the narrator, sees the listener as "nice" but not as desirable as the narrator themselves. The narrator believes they have a better chance with her. The chorus repeats the idea that the woman makes the narrator do things they don't want to do, emphasizing the power she holds over them both. The narrator questions why they should even confide in the listener about their feelings when it is clear that the listener wants her too. Overall, "You Want Her Too" delves into the complexities of desire, jealousy, and the inner conflict one experiences when competing for someone's affection. The song offers a glimpse into the narrator's perspective and the dynamics of their relationship with the listener and the woman they both desire.
