The song "Selfish" by Jack Harlow is about a troubled relationship where the speaker is torn between his desire for multiple sexual partners and his love for his significant other. He admits that his mind has been on other things and that he's been wanting to pursue other women. He acknowledges that he's not giving his partner the attention she deserves, but he also doesn't want to change his behavior. The chorus is about his partner suggesting they take a break, but the speaker doesn't want to let her go. He doesn't want to see her with anyone else, even though he's been selfish in the past. The verse also touches on the insecurity and jealousy that can come with a tumultuous relationship. The speaker accuses his partner of trying to make him jealous, but also acknowledges that he hasn't given her the love and attention she deserves. Overall, "Selfish" is a nuanced look at a relationship that is struggling due to the speaker's selfish behavior. The song acknowledges the emotional toll that infidelity and a lack of attention can take on a relationship.
