The song "Ruins" by Jade Bird is about the confusion and uncertainty that comes with a turbulent relationship. The lyrics describe the frustration of trying to figure out how to fix the problems and connect with the other person, while also feeling like a "goddamn maniac" due to the emotional rollercoaster. The chorus highlights the conflicting emotions, with the singer loving the other person one minute and feeling like everything is falling apart the next. The bridge suggests that the singer may not even fully understand their own emotions, and they feel like they are just a product of their emotions. Overall, the song conveys the frustration and confusion of trying to navigate a tumultuous relationship and the feeling of not knowing who you are or what you want. Despite these feelings, the singer still seems committed to trying to figure things out and make the relationship work.