"Foolish Pride" is a song by Joan Armatrading, a British singer-songwriter. The lyrics portray the speaker's realization of their past mistakes and their determination to change their behavior. The song begins with the admission of being a coward who has previously run away from confrontations or difficult situations. However, the speaker declares their intention to be brave and heroic from now on, disregarding their own pride. They want to let go of their fears and insecurities. The chorus emphasizes the importance of taking the situation seriously and not turning away. The speaker is vulnerable and shows their true self, hoping for a positive response. They express a desire for intimacy, longing for a hug and a kiss. However, the speaker acknowledges that they cannot control the other person's decision, and even if they say no, things will not remain the same. In the second verse, the speaker reflects on their past behavior, labeling themselves as a fool. They want to become wiser and avoid repeating previous mistakes. They refuse to remain stagnant and are determined to get their relationship right this time. They reject any trivial conflicts that might disturb their lives. The song is ultimately about personal growth, admitting past shortcomings, and actively seeking positive change. It encourages both the speaker and the listener to let go of their foolish pride and embrace vulnerability, communication, and openness in relationships.
