"The Shouting Stage" is a song by Joan Armatrading. In this song, she reflects on a once-loving relationship that has now reached a breaking point. The lyrics describe her initial belief that their love was strong and everlasting, but it becomes evident that her partner's mind has changed, causing her heartbreak and confusion. Armatrading expresses her frustration and hurt, feeling as though her feelings are no longer acknowledged or understood by her partner. She mentions being controlled by her partner's thoughts and feeling as though she has lost control over her own emotions. Despite longing for the love they once had, she realizes that they have reached a stage where they are constantly arguing and unable to communicate, hence the reference to the "shouting stage." She reminisces about the times when they would sit together without speaking, a poignant reminder of the silence and distance that has now replaced their once-loving relationship. Armatrading questions how their love, which once seemed unbreakable and joined at the sides, could have faded away so quickly. She wonders how two people, who once shared the same love and light, could now be out of love with each other. Ultimately, Armatrading is left feeling abandoned and unsure if her partner still cares about her. She longs for her partner to reach out and call her home, but deep down, she acknowledges that there is no one else for her. The song suggests a sense of resignation and acceptance of the fact that their love has reached its end, leaving her with painful memories of what they had before. "The Shouting Stage" explores themes of love, loss, and the breakdown of communication in a relationship. It highlights the emotional turmoil and confusion that can arise when once-loving partners grow apart and face the harsh reality of their disintegrating bond.
