"It's Easier" by John Grant is a song that explores the complexities and challenges of love and relationships. The lyrics express the narrator's vulnerability and confusion as they reflect on their past decisions and actions. The song begins with the realization that the narrator doesn't really know who they were trying to be or fool themselves into loving someone. They took a risk and believed they could handle it, feeling invincible in the arms of their loved one. However, as time passes, doubts start to seep in. The narrator finds it easier to believe that their partner is lying to them when they express their love and need. They contemplate the possibility of being deceived and eventually abandoned, acknowledging that walking away would be a simpler option for them to move on with their life. Despite the desire to make their partner understand their perspective, the narrator realizes it's futile as their partner remains firm in their need for freedom. The lyrics emphasize that true love cannot be given by fools and that the narrator was willing to sacrifice and be loyal. However, such precious gifts cannot guarantee a lasting relationship. The narrator accepts that what's done is done and they can't change their feelings. They express certainty that they don't regret anything but confess to missing the love they shared. They yearn for it to be just a dream and wake up from the painful reality. Overall, "It's Easier" conveys the struggles and conflicts within a relationship, portraying the challenges of trust, vulnerability, and the difficulty of letting go.
